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Stephanie lit a candle
Sunday, October 17, 2021
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Christopher Myers posted a condolence
Friday, December 11, 2020
Jon was just fun.
He teased us, challenged us and always left us laughing. He was such an enjoyable character; We couldn't get enough of him.
Jon was a free spirit.
During his 15 year old year, I coached Jon in soccer on an AYSO team. Since we were a very late entry, and since all of the other teams already had their players and begun practices, each team gave us three players to create our team. Obviously, we didn't receive any of the star players. We didn't win a game that season but it didn't matter to Jon; he just wanted to play for the joy of the game. And we all had a great time.
Jon was a special kid. I miss him and his passing saddens me. My heart goes out to Joe, Virginia and Mary.
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Stephanie from VA uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, November 3, 2020
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Drew was the coolest guy I ever met. I’m sure many people feel that way. Our paths crossed when he moved to Charlottesville, we both worked at the Inn. From sunny afternoons chillin with good music to other rowdy adventures I’ll keep vague, I enjoyed all of the time we spent together. He was truly special to me. I loved reading his poetry, he was so talented. When he told me he was moving back west i begged him not to go. He finally came back to VA to stay for a summer. It was a great time. He was supposed to write prose. I think he spent more time hiking and fishing. He ended up writing this stupid fiction where he killed off by beloved dog in a bear attack. I was pissed, we argued about it. I said you can’t kill my dog in your story, he said you can’t tell me how to write. We didn’t speak for a day. Oh Drew, I’d give anything to be pissed off at you one more time.
I don’t know who I would be if I hadn’t met Drew. He taught me so much about being true to myself. To not fake happy, or to pretend things were fine if they weren’t. To speak up and go after what I wanted. Sometimes I wish he would’ve taken his own advice.
I will miss so many thing about him. His jokes, him playing music, the way he made fun of me, vegetarian meals he thought I should know about. Our 2 am phone conversations cause he never remembered the time difference. Even when he was far away he seemed to reach out when I needed him most. He was a genuine guy. I loved him and he will be sincerely missed. I hope his family can find comfort knowing he meant so much to so many.
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Theresa S Iantosca uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, October 20, 2020
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Theresa S Iantosca posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 20, 2020
Especially at this time of year around his birthday I always think of Jon and the endless hours my children spent with him including working on "The Maze of Death". Jon and his dad created the most amazing maze each Halloween. What wonderful days those were, and what a wonderful friend Jon was. From kindergarten through high-school he was best friends with my kids and their friendship continued although they eventually went their separate ways. Jon even traveled the whole way to Brazil for my son's wedding. That was special! You are missed by many, Jon. Our love goes out to all your family.
Theresa Iantosca
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Colleen Anthony posted a condolence
Sunday, October 18, 2020
Darren (my son) and Jon were best friends growing up, even though the went to different high schools. They played sports together. Jon was a constant and welcomed guest to our home as Darren was to his. They had many adventures together (some I probably don’t want to know about). Jon was accepted to Auburn University and Virginia wanted Darren to apply so they could go together. In the end Jon decided to go elsewhere but I can thank him for getting Darren there because besides his education he met his wonderful wife and have 3 of my grandchildren. Jon was the best man in his wedding. I know they’ve drifted apart as adults but I share in Darren’s shock and sadness over this loss. I know the memories will last forever.
Colleen Anthony
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Carol Seay posted a condolence
Sunday, October 18, 2020
Such sweet memories of Sea Island with Jonathan and Hunt family weddings. My heart goes out to Virginia, Joe and Mary. May his memory be everlasting and a comfort to all.
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Brice Blatz posted a condolence
Saturday, October 17, 2020
If you have ever had the chance to play music with some of your best friends and have the amazing opportunity to play this music in front of crowd, it ends up sticking with you for the rest of your life. I understand why rock stars will play hundreds of shows decade after decade. It is truly exhilarating. I was able to share this experience with my very good friend Jon when we were in high school. I will never forget these memories because it still is part of what makes my up the fabric of my ideals and personality. Jon was the foundation of this band and was probably the only true "rock star" personality among us (sorry Pierre and Sean!) Anyway, I am writing this while looking at the picture of Jon that is up on this website. It is so difficult to look at because it floods my mind with all the memories I shared with him and it is so sad to know we will not be able to share any more in the future. I am so sorry for Virginia, Joe and Mary. They were always so good to me and let me into their home in such an accepting way. I found out that Jon had passed away on my birthday this year. So now writing on his birthday I can say that all of my birthdays going forward will have a bittersweet yet loving memory of Jon Hess. RIP.
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Sean White uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, October 17, 2020
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Jon was my oldest friend, we kept in touch and then a few years ago we lost touch. He was the best man at my wedding and I was with him on his voyage back to CA from VA, this photo was from that trip (never a dull moment). He loved music, when we stopped at rest stops I was always looking for a spot to skate, Jon was looking for a spot to strum his guitar. He and I also took a spring break road trip to Canada and spent an epic day snowboarding at Whistler. I'm still shocked that his story ends like this, most of his friends will tell you he was the strongest guy they knew, like an ox. Joe and Virginia I'll be sending you all the prints I could find from our (mis)adventures. The thing that has given me peace of mind about Jon's passing is knowing that he lived his life, really lived it. I was always in awe of the gusto with which he approached everything he was passionate about. I'll never forget Jon and I know I'm not alone. Happy Birthday buddy.
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Margaret Hunt lit a candle
Saturday, October 17, 2020
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We will always treasure our family memories of the little tow headed Jon. Our trip to take him to look at Washington and Lee was a very special memory also. He will always be loved by his aunt, uncle and many cousins. Happy Birthday sweet nephew in heaven. Love, Aunt Margaret and Uncle Doug
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Megan Carter lit a candle
Saturday, October 17, 2020
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Most of my time with cousin Jon was spent in our youth, and I always remember him laughing and making the rest of us laugh, goofing off with my brothers. So it was a lot like having another brother when he was around except for a big difference— he was so friendly and nice to me, never teased me, and I loved him for it. (I loved my brothers too of course, but they were often doing their brotherly duty to get under my skin.)
I’ll never forget the time when Jon was living in Charlottesville and came back to see W&L and catch up with me and Davin. He was several years out of college and therefore “worldly” in my eyes, and I had not seen him in many years. So I remember being worried that my college life might seem boring and lame to him. I don’t remember what year I was in school, but it was an age where the academic, social and cultural aspects of the college bubble were all-consuming. Yet I was dimly aware that it might all seem trivial in a few short years. So it would have been completely understandable if Jon and the friend he brought along had talked down to us and smirked at our undergrad pursuits, and told us how little we knew about what await us in the “real world.” But he didn’t. That whole afternoon, he was the same funny and friendly Jon I remembered, but he also taught me something about how to treat other people. He gave me his full attention and showed genuine curiosity about my life, and in turn made me feel interesting, even though he was really the one with interesting stories to share. He asked me all about my own college experience, and we bonded over and explored some of his old memories on the same campus. It was only a few hours spent together, and it’s hard to explain why that afternoon meant so much to me, but the memory has stayed with me ever since. It’s no wonder that Jon made friends everywhere he went; he had a gift for making other people feel valued.
We love you Jon; you will be missed very much.
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Susan Berman posted a condolence
Friday, October 16, 2020
My heart goes out to Jon’s loving parents, Virginia and Joe. May Jon’s memory be a blessing. Sue Berman
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Karen Cano posted a condolence
Thursday, October 15, 2020
Hi Virginia, DO YOU REMEMBER When I asked you if Jon had high moral standards? You answered immediately and said YES. he took my daughter to the ST. FRANCIS DANCE. YOU WENT ALL OVER TO FIND A WRISTLET. JON WENT TO HIS FIRST HIGH SCHOOL DANCE AND MY DAUGHTER WAS SO PROUD BECAUSE HE WAS SO HANDSOME AND POLITE. WE HOPE THIS MEMORY BRINGS A SMILE TO BOTH YOU AND JOE. GOD BLESS, FRANK & KAREN CANO
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Sue Dykes posted a condolence
Thursday, October 15, 2020
I was so sorry to hear of Jon’s passing. Jon always had a song in his heart, was a talented musician, loved soccer, and the water, especially surfing. One of my more recent memories is of him jamming with his band at his Dad's birthday party. Jon was really happy and full of laughter. He had a sparkle in his eye, a flow of amusing, comical, and interesting comments which added to the festivities.
My daughter Kathy remembers him fondly. As a young child, he would often be out playing in our cul de sac with his friends Sean and Eric White. She remembers him as a very genuine, friendly, and kind soul. Someone she enjoyed being around and would have liked to have spent more time with.
We will all miss you, Jon, Rest in peace singing and jamming with the angels.
Fondly Sue Dykes.
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Sam Ferguson uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, October 14, 2020
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I haven't seen Jon in almost ten years. When most of my memories of life 20 years have become blurred and faded, there are memories of the vivid character cutting through...Jon was part of our high school "crew" where we ate lunch together everyday and played hackysack with our lunch bags (Crappysack) and threw food into the middle of the quad to unleash a squadron of pooping seagulls on the students walking through. I love the picture of the late 50's Mopar station wagon where he would blast King Tubby dub music on the mini disc player while we were driving up and down Cliff Drive and greater Santa Cruz looking for the spot...Jon and Tim had the legit Morey slick bottom boards but I kept up. We spent the majority of our time at Natural Bridges, Sunny Cove, It's It's, Manresa, and the Harbor. Jon let me jam with his friends at Sean's dad's office, he was a great bass player. I think Virginia and Joe even let us unleash our noise for a backyard pool party one year. We saw each other after high school as everyone started to travel and get married. Jon met up in Bug Sur to camp, traveled to Brazil for Tim and Larissa's wedding, came to my wedding, Sarah's wedding. I had a friendship with Jon where we wouldn't talk for years and could start off right where we left off. It hurts and brings tears to my eyes to think that will never happen again, that my son will never meet him. Those memories of travel, the beach, and music are some of my fondest and most memorable. I think the friends we had make the memories so much more special, and I like to think that Jon's spirit touches all those memories. Here are a few pictures from Tim's wedding in Brazil, Big Sur, Baja, hanging with friends, and Jon dropping into a monster right hander in front of Santa Cruz Harbor that I proudly displayed in my freshman door room when I left for Santa Barbara.
Mike Wienick uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, October 13, 2020
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Drew lived across the hall from me freshman year of college. The first true Californian I met boogie board poster, bongo, home made salsa and all. We became close that year, but I had no idea he would have such a huge influence on my life spending almost 2 years together in Charlottesville after college, visiting him often when he lived in California, and finally we both landed in Portland.
In the last 22 years Drew taught me about reggae, bass playing, kung fu, mini discs, philosophy, journaling, sci fi, cooking, and a million other things.
We made a lot of music together, we took a ton of road trips together. Drew was the type of person that could turn a simple trip to the store into an adventure.
Drew pushed me to be better, to try new things, to be creative, to be free, and like many others, I was drawn to him. We hung out so much in Charlottesville people would just refer to us as Wienick and Drew. He was more than a friend, he was my brother and my heart hurts knowing he is no longer a phone call away.
Drew - you are gone but never will be forgotten, my kids and grandkids will be hearing about our adventures in the years to come.
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Davin lit a candle
Monday, October 12, 2020
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I love that you named your dog after the Simpsons. You also taught you cousins how to power bomb. You taught me the classic prank of putting liquid soap on someone’s toothbrush, and waiting 2 days until they brushed their teeth. Consequentially, Austin learned to brush his teeth more often.
You let me edit your poetry (and make it much worse).
You saved me from a strong current, that I was sure I could swim through, but probably couldn’t.
I have countless memories, and all of them make me smile (and tear up).
Love you and miss you my cousin/friend.
Davin
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joe hess uploaded photo(s)
Monday, October 12, 2020
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Sunday, October 11, 2020
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